Category Archives: Communication Skills

Curious Communication

From the Ask Tom mailbag – Question: I have been reading your blog on the recommendation of one of the owners of my company. I am unsure of how to handle this situation. Our company has grown over the past … Continue reading

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Lost In Translation

From the Ask Tom mailbag – Question: In your Time Span workshop, you talk about the breakdowns in communication that can occur when a manager skips a layer, for example a Stratum IV manager working with a Stratum II supervisor. … Continue reading

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100 Percent Responsible

“But, what if my team just doesn’t want to listen to me?” Susan protested. “And, how does that make you, as the manager, less responsible for the communication?” I asked. “Yeah, but, if they don’t want to listen, how can … Continue reading

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I Sound Like My Mother

“I tell them what to do and all they do is argue,” complained Cheryl. “How does that sound?” I asked. “Pretend I am running the line. What mistake could I make that needs correction?” “They always forget to inspect incoming … Continue reading

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An Inventive Way to Solve a Problem

My coffee was piping hot, hazelnut with a little cream. Cheryl’s meeting was to start in a few minutes. She was determined to turn things around with her team. She was hired as a troubleshooter in Quality Control, but finding … Continue reading

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Don't Invite an Argument

“I tell them what to do and all they do is argue,” complained Cheryl. “How does that sound?” I asked. “Pretend I am running the line. What mistake could I make that needs correction?” “They always forget to inspect incoming … Continue reading

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Curiousity Doesn't Kill the Cat

Cheryl was determined to turn things around with her team. She was hired as a troubleshooter in Quality Control, but finding the problem and fixing the problem are two different things. “So today, you said you were going to listen?” … Continue reading

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You Could Wear a Sign

“I am taking over a new department,” explained Ellen. “It’s not a promotion, just a new department. I heard through the grapevine that some people are off-balance wondering what life is going to be like under my direction. Two people … Continue reading

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Seven Stages of Listening

Every conversation can be calibrated. Every conversation has a platform. These are the seven stages of listening. Ignoring completely Pretending to listen Listening selectively Listening to respond Listening to understand Listening to learn Listening for the intersection where someone else’s … Continue reading

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It's Not About Talking

“Communication. My biggest issue is communication,” explained Lawrence. “That’s what it all boils down to. If we could just communicate. If we just would communicate more effectively, things would be better.” “Do you have trouble speaking?” I asked. “No,” he … Continue reading

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