Category Archives: Teams

The Real Manager

Leave a reply

“Build the team sounds like a fine idea,” Ethan nodded. “But, just exactly how do I do that?”

“Look, every team member knows who their manager is, just ask them,” I replied. “And, they will respond with a question. They will ask – Do you mean who they tell me my manager is? Or who is my real manager?”

“On my team, they know I am the manager,” Ethan was quick to say.

“Of course they do. The company called a meeting and announced – Ethan is now your manager!”

“Well, yeah, that’s kinda how it went down.”

“But, ask your team – When you get stuck, on a problem that is really tough, not – where do we sweep up the scrap that falls off the machine, but a really tough problem, who do you go to for help?”

“Do you mean?” Ethan looked puzzled. “Do you mean it’s not the company who decides the manager, it’s the team?”

Pick Up the Pace

Leave a reply

“Do you mean, do I like working with my friends?” Ethan asked.

“You are the manager, now,” I nodded. “It’s not a matter of working with your friends. You are the leader now. It is a different role. It’s not that you are a different person, but you are playing a different role. And, in that role, what is your most important objective?”

“To get the work done, I suppose” he replied.

I continued to nod. “To get the work done today? Or to get the work done this year?” I pressed.

“If we don’t get the work done today, my boss is going to yell at me, so that’s important.”

“Yes, so that lights a bit of a fire under you,” I said. “I watched you pick up your personal pace, walking the floor a bit more quickly, triple checking the work, encouraging the team with a higher pitch in your voice. If we strapped a blood pressure cuff on you, I bet we would see a small rise.”

“I can feel the stress. It builds in the morning, and by quitting time, I am spent,” Ethan dropped his face.

“There is only one way out of this,” I smiled.

“Yes?” Ethan was all ears.

“You have to get the work done today, but your most important objective is to build the team. If you build the team, they will pick up their personal pace, they will walk the floor a bit more quickly, they will triple check their work and you will not have to raise your voice.”

Who Do You Hang With?

Leave a reply

“Why are you here?” I asked.

Ethan paused, sensing his response could not be casual. He knew I would only ask a more probing question. “I have to provide for my family,” he finally replied.

“But, you could do that with most any job,” I predictably prodded. “Why are you here? At this place? At this time?”

“I don’t know, it just sort of happened. A friend told me I could get a job here and things worked out. I started on the floor seven years ago, was promoted to supervisor, and here I am now, just promoted to manager.”

“Why don’t you leave?” I wanted to know.

Ethan took another pause. “Over time, I got used to working with these people. They’re my best friends. Sometimes, I think I spend more time with them than I do my family. Heck, they are like my family. I have an investment in the other people I work with.”

“You are getting closer,” I suggested. “How does that understanding serve you, as a manager?”

Persuasion

Leave a reply

“So, I should focus on execution?” Roberta asked.

“It takes both. Flawless execution of a bad idea is still a bad idea,” I replied. “But even if you have a good idea, unless the team believes in your idea, you will not get flawless execution.”

“So, it’s persuasion?” she wanted to know.

“The best persuaders are not those with the most powerful ideas,” I nodded. “The best persuaders are those who listen. Listening reveals the path to persuasion. The best salesperson I ever knew was fond of saying – if you will just listen to the customer for three minutes, they will tell what and how they want to buy.”

Bright Ideas, Insufficient

Leave a reply

“I thought my promotion to manager was to become better at directing people to get work done,” Roberta said. “You make it seem like there should be more focus on the team than on me. I thought I had to have the answers, the solutions?”

“You might have answers and your answers may be the most coherent. You might have solutions and your solutions may be the ones that save the day,” I replied. “But, it is not your answers, your solutions, your planning, your bright ideas that make the difference. It’s execution. I am also certain that you have high performance standards, and you would meet those performance standards if you could self-perform each step in the process. Yet, you have come to realize that successful initiatives are seldom accomplished by a single person, it takes a team. It’s not the idea harbored by a single individual, it’s the coordinated execution that transforms a dispirited group into a cohesive team.”

Telling People What to Do

Leave a reply

“So, I may have a better way, but if I don’t get the team behind me, there will be friction in the process?” Roberta wondered out loud.

“Most assuredly,” I replied. “And there is a public persona to a team behind you, which looks high spirited and agreeable, but, there is also a private persona which may be filled with grumbling, victim status or outright mutiny. Behind your back, of course.”

“So, I may not see it coming?” she asked.

“If you are unaware, you will always be blindsided,” I smiled. “So, it’s not enough to get public agreement. You have to draw out the discontent. The real issue is not the better of two methods, the real issue is the position for pushback. Until you acknowledge and listen to the team, its reasoning for the way work gets done, its history of frustration, its valiant attempts to make things better that were ultimately stiffarmed by a policy or a silly rule. You have to tease out the real issue before you can deal with the merits of one method over another. Great managers are seldom known for their efficiency in telling people what to do. Great managers are known for their ability to bring value to the work of the team.”

Object in Motion

Leave a reply

“You make it seem like I got promoted to manager was just happenchance,” Roberta said.

“In many ways, your appointment was just because you were standing in the right place at the right time, call it luck,” I replied. “But, luck alone will not sustain you as a manager. You now have the authority to make decisions and solve problems the way you would have them solved, but that does not mean you have the team behind you.”

Roberta turned pensive. “You mean, I might tell the team to do something in a certain way, or at a certain time, and the team might push back?”

“Most assuredly,” I smiled. “The bane of every manager is that the team almost always pushes back. It’s not necessarily out of malice. Or that the team thinks you are a dolt. Most pushback occurs because the team has its own way, its own methods, it own habits that are difficult to break.”

“So, just because I am the manager does not mean it’s my turn and I get my way?” Roberta asked, not as a question, but a statement of reality.

I answered anyway, nodding. “I think you get the picture. Your way may be the best way, but you are fighting momentum, object in motion stays in motion. It is your role to interrogate current methods, gather new methods and solicit input, so you can guide the team to the best decision. It is cumbersome in the short run, but the only way in the long run. If you force the short game, your term as a manager is already on the rocks.”

Earning Followers

Leave a reply

“Well, I’m here,” Roberta replied to the unspoken question. “I’m the manager, now.”

“Yes, you are,” I said. “Tell me how you got here?”

“It’s pretty simple. My manager was out on family leave and decided not to come back. We waited for his return for ten weeks without a manager, limping along. At first, it was okay, we just did what we did the day before. As time went by, the wheels got a little wobbly.”

“And, so they picked you to be the new manager?” I smiled.

“I guess so,” Roberta answered. “So, now it’s my team. I have seven direct reports.”

“Oh, really?” I turned my head a bit to the side. “Why do you think they picked you?”

“That’s easy,” she said, with some awareness of the circumstance. “I have been here the longest.”

“So, it’s not the 10,000 books you read on leadership, or your demonstrated skills at supporting the team through a tough problem? It’s only because you have been here the longest?”

Roberta scrunched her face. “Yes, I guess that’s about it.”

“Don’t feel so bad,” I nodded. “Most managers are appointed to the role in exactly the same way. It’s not your leadership prowess. You were standing in the middle of the scene and there was no one else around with your experience, working here the longest, so you got the job. But, please understand, the team is not yours. You may have been appointed to the role, given the authority, whatever that means, but yours is not an earned position, it was appointed. It is the team that must be earned.”

The Line at Your Door

Leave a reply

“But, if I have the right solution to the problem, isn’t it more efficient to just get the team to do it my way?” Muriel protested.

“In the short run,” I replied. “Are you playing the short game or a long game? Are you training your team to solve problems or are you training your team to follow directions?”

“But, my manager, you know I have a manager, too?” Muriel hinted a bit of sarcasm. “My manager expects me to solve this problem, get on with the work, so we can get to the next project. My manager doesn’t care, as long as we keep moving.”

“Are you sure?” I asked. “If all the problems faced by the team have to go through you, eventually what happens to the speed of problem solving? And the more you solve the team’s problems, the more they depend on you to solve their problems. Every team problem you take away, disables the team, to the point where they are helpless to solve a problem without you. Even if the problem is within their capability to solve, you create a habit, a routine grooved behavior that leads right to the line at your door, behind all the other problems that begin to stack up.”

Fear of Failure

Leave a reply

“When I became the manager, things changed,” Muriel answered.

“What changed?” I asked again.

“When I became the manager, I became accountable for the results of the team,” she replied. “It’s a different level of accountability. Whatever the team does, is now on my dime.”

“And, what are you afraid of?” I pressed.

“Afraid? I’m not afraid. If I was afraid, I wouldn’t have confidence in my solution,” Muriel snapped.

“What if you were afraid? What would you be afraid of?”

Muriel was not so quick to respond. “I am afraid that if the team doesn’t implement the right solution, I will be seen a failure as a manager,” she finally replied.

“Is it possible, you provided a solution to the team out of fear, rather than allow the team to struggle to find their own solution? If you could go back and do it over, what might you do differently?”