“How could it be necessity. I thought you said it was a volunteer project?” I pressed. “Volunteer means you had a choice. How could it be necessity?”
Donna sat for a minute. “You are right. We were volunteers, as a team. But to us, it was necessary. It was necessary to show up on time. It was necessary to support each other. It was necessary to challenge each other. It was necessary to finish the project.”
“Look, you said it was necessity that made your team perform at such a high level. But if you were all volunteers, what made this project necessary?”
“I don’t know,” Donna replied. “It was something we saw in the project.” She stopped. “Or something we saw in ourselves that made the project necessary. For each person on the team.”
I let her words sink in. She had just made the connection. The necessity that drove her team was something inside each team member, that made them push forward.
And then I pressed again, “So, how do you, as a manager, create that necessity, with your team, on this new project?”