“When I became the manager, things changed,” Muriel answered.

“What changed?” I asked again.

“When I became the manager, I became accountable for the results of the team,” she replied. “It’s a different level of accountability. Whatever the team does, is now on my dime.”

“And, what are you afraid of?” I pressed.

“Afraid? I’m not afraid. If I was afraid, I wouldn’t have confidence in my solution,” Muriel snapped.

“What if you were afraid? What would you be afraid of?”

Muriel was not so quick to respond. “I am afraid that if the team doesn’t implement the right solution, I will be seen a failure as a manager,” she finally replied.

“Is it possible, you provided a solution to the team out of fear, rather than allow the team to struggle to find their own solution? If you could go back and do it over, what might you do differently?”