“Sometimes, I feel like I am fighting an uphill battle. I call a meeting and explain what I want done. We go over all the details, but it just gives some the chance to rain on the parade.” Camella had a new process she was trying to install out on the floor. “They talk it down in the meeting so it has no chance when it makes it to manufacturing. I know I want to do the right thing and get buy in before we get started, but I feel like I am stalemated.”

“Have you ever reversed the process?” I asked.

“What do you mean?” said Camella, gaining curiosity.

“Sometimes, when I know the explanation is going to draw fire, I just don’t explain. Sometimes, I just sweep people into action. Before anyone has a chance to protest or complain that something won’t work, we have demonstrated that it will work. We don’t have to go through the whole process, just enough to warm the team up to the idea. Then we debrief and go for buy-in, after they have proved to themselves that it will work.” -TF

“I just wanted to tell you that I have to give my two weeks notice. I found another job that pays more money and I can’t turn it down.” There was an awkward silence as Barbara tried to gather her thoughts to respond to Howard, her best lead technician.

Her first instinct was to find out how much more money and counter the offer, persuade Howard to stay. Patience got the better of her and she replied, “Howard, I know this was a tough decision for you. I also know that decisions like this are complicated and rarely determined by a single factor. You said you were leaving for money, but I have to believe there may be other reasons, too. Since you have made a decision to leave, would you do me a favor and spend some time talking about things we could do differently around here. Your thoughts might make a difference to your other team members.”

Countering an offer for higher wages seldom works. There are usually other more compelling circumstances that drive a team member to another company. As the manager, if you cannot improve those circumstances, more money will only delay the inevitable. First, you have to fix what’s wrong. -TF

Marjorie was puzzled. Twenty minutes ago, she had adjourned a meeting with her development team. The purpose of the meeting had been to share the newly published annual business plan. For the first time since Marjorie joined the company, the vision, described in the plan, finally made sense. They had staked out a customer base and truly nailed down the objectives for the next twelve months. It was the clearest flag the company had ever planted. Then, why didn’t the team respond enthusiastically?

In my class, I often ask the question, “What’s your flag?” And then, “What are the different flags of each of your team members?”

Which flag do you care the most about? Which flag does your team member care the most about? Here’s the news, nobody cares about your flag. People only care about their own flag. Companies are great about describing their own flag, but nobody cares. Customers don’t care, employees don’t care. People only care about their own flag.

As a Manager, to have any hope in the areas of motivation and alignment, you have to find out the flags of each of your individual team members. Finding out about the flags of your customers doesn’t hurt either. -TF