“So, I have to know where I want to go, before I get advice?” Sebastian clarified.
“You are going to get advice all the time from everyone around you,” I said. “Whose advice do you listen to? You have to make a judgement about the guidance you receive, whether that guidance will create the outcomes in line with your pursuit.”
Sebastian was silent. Not stony, but reflective.
“Is what people tell you important to your pursuits, or their pursuits?” I continued. “Is their guidance based on an objective reality, or their interpretation of reality? Hint, objective reality is hard to come by. It is important to inquire of other interpretations, but ultimately, you have to decide your own interpretation. It is only you with a precise understanding of your journey and its destination.”