“Well, I’m here,” Roberta replied to the unspoken question. “I’m the manager, now.”

“Yes, you are,” I said. “Tell me how you got here?”

“It’s pretty simple. My manager was out on family leave and decided not to come back. We waited for his return for ten weeks without a manager, limping along. At first, it was okay, we just did what we did the day before. As time went by, the wheels got a little wobbly.”

“And, so they picked you to be the new manager?” I smiled.

“I guess so,” Roberta answered. “So, now it’s my team. I have seven direct reports.”

“Oh, really?” I turned my head a bit to the side. “Why do you think they picked you?”

“That’s easy,” she said, with some awareness of the circumstance. “I have been here the longest.”

“So, it’s not the 10,000 books you read on leadership, or your demonstrated skills at supporting the team through a tough problem? It’s only because you have been here the longest?”

Roberta scrunched her face. “Yes, I guess that’s about it.”

“Don’t feel so bad,” I nodded. “Most managers are appointed to the role in exactly the same way. It’s not your leadership prowess. You were standing in the middle of the scene and there was no one else around with your experience, working here the longest, so you got the job. But, please understand, the team is not yours. You may have been appointed to the role, given the authority, whatever that means, but yours is not an earned position, it was appointed. It is the team that must be earned.”