“Have you ever been crabbing?” I asked. We were discussing the negativity of Chet’s team. Every meeting, they seemed successful at shooting down everything that Chet wanted to do.

“Crabbing, you know, where you trap crabs, pull them out of the water and throw them into a basket?”

Chet looked at me a little strangely. “What’s that got to do with my team?”

“Here’s the thing, Chet. If you only have one crab in the basket, you have to really watch him, because he will crawl out of that basket lickety split. The trick is to catch some more crabs quickly. It’s amazing. With a bunch of crabs, when one starts to crawl out, all the other crabs attach to his legs and pull him back into the basket. You would think they would all try to crawl out, but that’s not what happens. Sometimes, teams are the same way.

“Here is the way I set things up. Before I describe a possible solution, I go around and have each team member describe the major benefits if we are successful at solving the problem. If I can get them to focus on the benefits, they are less likely to focus on the crab trying to crawl out of the basket.” -TF