Seven minutes have passed since this meeting began, yet of the six people in the room, only three are talking with each other. Randy is fiddling with his new Blackberry e-mail device, Sharon is sorting some papers for an outside project, and Lisa is looking at her calendar for next month. Only half the people are engaged, the other half disengaged.

The meeting started with the Manager announcing that the VIP Project had come to a screeching halt last week and the customer was mighty upset. The current discussion was to determine who’s fault it was.

Try an alternative approach to opening the meeting. Distribute six 3×5 cards, one to each team member. Ask the following question, “At the end of this meeting, what do you hope to have accomplished? You have 45 seconds to write your response.”

Forty five seconds later, go around the table and have each person contribute their intention for the meeting. Write their responses on a flip chart. Now you have a good start for your meeting. Everyone is engaged, all six of them, focused on how they can solve the problem with the VIP Project.

PS. Make Randy check his Blackberry at the door. If you don’t, he will continue to be distracted by his new addiction. -TF

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