“I don’t understand why people have to bring their personal lives to work,” complained Marjorie. “I don’t need the drama. Can’t they just put up this virtual wall between their work life and their personal life?”
“So, why do you think people bring their personal lives to work?” I asked.
“I don’t know, because they have them, I suppose.”
“If there is no drama in a person’s life, what do most people do?” I prodded.
“Now, that’s funny. If there is no drama, people create it,” Marjorie spouted.
“If there is no drama, at work, what do most people do?”
“I told you, if there is no drama, people create it.”
“Please, understand that an absence of drama is a pathological condition. Drama is the meaning, the interpretation of our human experience. If there is no drama, at work, most people will bring it. And, in the absence of drama, in the absence of meaning, most people will bring it. If you, as a manager, have not created the context for the work, people will bring it. If what happens outside of work is more meaningful than what happens inside of work, you notice that people bring that outside in.”
Marjorie was listening. She spoke. “So, what you are saying is, that work is personal.”